Starr King View
March 2010 Newsletter
Sunday Services - 9:30 a.m.
March 7: “ Spiritual Journeys ”
Worship and Music
March 14: “Why I Am a Feminist”
The Rev.
Sarah C. Stewart preaching.
March 21:“ Three Wishes”
Celebration Sunday! Come for exciting music, an
opportunity to share your three wishes for our fellowship, and to make your
2010 stewardship pledge.
The
Rev. Sarah C. Stewart preaching.
March 28: “April Fool’s Service ”
Come in
your silliest clothes and zaniest mood for our annual service of fun.
_______________________________________________________________________________________
In
Fellowship
March
2010
The
Rev. Sarah C. Stewart
“Where
do we come from? Where are we
going?”
As
a fellowship, we are considering these questions together this year. They are the focus for our shared
mission and vision work, and they are the theme for our stewardship
campaign. Mission and stewardship
go together. Without financial
support, we can’t live out our mission. Without a vision of where we will go together, we have nothing to
support. Who we are, where we are
going, and how we will get there together. This is our adventure this year.
Stewardship,
for me, is not just about raising the funds we need for our fellowship to
thrive. It is about the thrilling
combination of imagining the future, and coming together to make it
happen. This fellowship--our
fellowship--is what we make of it. It is the combined spirit of all the people who gather in our walls
every week for worship, learning, fun and service. It is the memories of those who have gone before, and their
gifts of time, energy, money and talent that have made our congregation what it
is. Our fellowship will be a place
for and formed by those people yet to come, people we don’t even know yet, who
will build on our work to grow the spirit of this place for generations. We can find our own spot in that
growing legacy by imagining the future, and giving what we can to support it.
I
don’t worry that I can’t do all the stewardship on my own. My husband and I look at the giving
chart and find ourselves on it every year. We try to give a little more than we gave the year before. We give the amount that is right for us
and supports the mission of this fellowship. We give in trust, knowing that all of you are making the
same decision to give the right amount for you to continue our work together.
This
year, our Stewardship team is asking us all to consider giving to the
fellowship the amount that is right for us. Whatever you can give--whatever amount, big or small--make
that your pledge to our shared future. Don’t worry that you can’t do it all. No one person can do it all. Your gift, along with the gifts of everyone else around you
in our fellowship, will make our imagined future a reality. We are our wonderful and diverse
selves, people of all means and stages in life. And we are going on the adventure of fellowship life--together.
I
look forward to seeing you at our Celebration Sunday on March 21!
In fellowship,
Rev.
Sarah
Religious Education Program
I am delighted to announce that we have a new Nursery
Caregiver! Keely Oates is from Reading, Massachusetts, and is a Junior at PSU. She has worked in a
Day Care and loves children, especially babies and toddlers. Keely will be
staffing the SKUUF Nursery from 9:00 a.m. until 12:00 noon every Sunday. Please stop by and say “hello.”
Earlier this month a couple of adults asked me where the
children were. They were missed at
the beginning of the service. I thought
you all might like to know that on the first Sunday of the month the younger
children have a Chapel Service downstairs. (The Neighboring Faith students have
their own ingathering service with joys and concerns in their room .)
We have a printed Order of Service each month with our
opening and closing words and the songs we will be singing. (I have posted a few samples on the RE
bulletin board downstairs.) February’s topic was prayer and saying prayers at
night. We talked about the difference
between praying and begging. After
a bit of discussion on prayer I told the children about a UU minister’s
response to a seven year old who wanted to know how she should pray at night. He suggested that each night she think
of something she was grateful for, something she was sorry about, and something
she hoped for. We talked about all
three topics and came up with examples of each. You may want to try this with your children or
grandchildren.
I really enjoy these special times with our children, but
I also appreciate the time at the beginning of the service when the whole
congregation meets together. We
are indeed a multigenerational family!
RE thanks this month go to:
Darlene
Nadeau for leading Yoga with the children
Bob
Gannett and Diana Pamplin for leading a
singing and play time with
the younger children
Jay Apicelli for again welcoming our older students
to the Radio Station
and Hoffmans and Zeolis for driving.
Margaret
Salt for again meeting with the Youth Group
Lucy
Miller for helping in the Nursery
Diana and Rachel Pamplin for helping with the
Nursery interview process
Cindy
Spring, DRE
Help
us keep our information current.
Remember
to notify the SKUUF Office if...
you change your: name, mailing address, phone number, email address
Just
call or email Regina with the correct information. Thank you.
RE Calendar
Date
|
Story
Time
|
Creating
Home
|
Neighboring
Faiths
|
March
7
|
Chapel
Rainbow
of My Own
Amy
& Jason
|
Chapel
Loyalty
Kim
& Mark
|
Chapel
Buddhism
|
March
14
|
Annie
& the Wild Animals Stew & Barbara
|
Diversity
Kelli
& Jeanette
|
Finish
Buddhism
|
March
21
|
Passover
Story
Deb
& Jamie
|
Stewardship
Nancy
& Sue
|
Hinduism
|
March
28
|
Intergenerational
April
Fool’s Service
|
||
Thank-you’s go out to Darlene Nadeau for doing yoga with our younger members and Darcy
Hoffman, Louis Zeoli and Jay Apecelli for the radio station trip.
Also to all the parents and
volunteers who sent in food and helped us put together coffee hour on January
31.
We couldn’t do what we do without all your help and
support.
Mary Crowell
“From the Prez”…
Let it snow, let it snow, let it
snow! As I’m writing this, it
snowed about three inches in the last couple of hours for our first real snow in
weeks. Despite the busted forecast for snow totals, I’m very happy that we have
some new snow just in time for February vacation.
The Spring is an exciting time in the Fellowship. There is so much to do and so much going
on. I invite each of you to get involved with the work and with the fun. I’m
personally looking forward to being the auctioneer once again this year.
The Board is working with the
Budget and Finance committee on drafts of the FY11 budget. We also continue to
work on a number of policy issues. Remember, the Board meetings are open to
everyone. If you have something that you would like the Board to address feel
free to either attend a meeting or ask one of the Board members to make it an
agenda item.
Eric
Hoffman
Community
Closet Needs Our Help
Remember, the Community Closet can
always use our help. There is a
basket in the foyer for your non-breakable food contributions. You can drop off canned or boxed goods
anytime.
Thank
you.
SKUUF Finances Snapshot as of February 10, 2010
Fiscal Year to Date, Operating: Change
from Last Month
Income $ 90,498.10 +
$ 11,192.92
Expenses $ 89,245.40 +
$ 12,856.47
Important Balances
Operating
Funds $ 18,341.59 -
$ 1,353.08
Building
Funds** $ 96,635.97 -
$ 12,732.67
Endowment
Funds* $ 12,007.42 +$ 1.55
This snapshot shows only selected funds. This is not a full accounting of assets
or liabilities. If you would like
more detailed information feel free to contact Nancy Chaddock, or me.
*These funds represent multiple
accounts grouped together.
** This includes the principal
from the new mortgage.
Accurately
submitted,
Mark
Becker
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Office Hours
Our minister, Sarah Stewart, is in
the office Tuesday through Thursday. You can reach her at: 536-8908 or sstewart@starrkingfellowship.org.
Our Office Assistant, Regina Knowlton,
is in the office Monday through Friday from 9:00 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
Governing
Board Meeting
The Governing Board will meet on
Wednesday, March 10 at 5:00 p.m.
Committee Chairs Meeting
Committee
Chairs will meet on Tuesday, March 16 at 5:00 p.m.
Announcements:
Deadline for the Sunday Order of
Service:
Please note the new deadline for
the order of service. All
elements of the order of service, including announcements, need to be submitted
to the office by Tuesday.
Thank you
Connect
with Starr King Fellowship online in new ways!
Find us on Facebook!
Become a fan of Starr King Unitarian Universalist Fellowship here: http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#/pages/
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account in order to do this. Facebook updates
will be automatically cross-posted on Twitter.
More integration will follow,
including posting the Twitter feed on the Minister's Blog on our website.
Join in to these new media to complement our face-to-face interaction as a
fellowship. Please see Rev. Sarah with questions.
The Rev. Sarah C. Stewart
Minister
Social Justice
Community
Outreach for March
The Pemi Youth Center is a local
not-for-profit, serving as an after school destination for youth ages ten to
seventeen. The Center offers
enriching after school programming at no cost to youth and families, which includes, academic assistance, mentoring,
arts and recreational activities, nutritional guidance and cooking instruction,
a drug and alcohol free group, a drama group, service learning opportunities
and much more! Pemi Youth Center
staff work hard to inspire, encourage and support young minds and dreams. The majority of volunteer staff are PSU students, who act as wonderful role models for our
youth!
Over the past year the Pemi Youth
Center has launched the Chain Reaction Youth to Youth Drug and Alcohol Free
group. This group meets on a
weekly basis and topics such as the benefits of living drug and alcohol free,
self-esteem, body image, healthy relationships and much more are
discussed. The group participates
in many service learning and community service projects and looks forward to
spreading their message of remaining drug and alcohol free to local middle
school students.
Most recently Pemi Youth Center
youth participants put together Hero Packs in collaboration with Operation
Military Kids. Back packs were
filled with stationary, games, stuffed animals, cameras and photo albums for
local children, whose parents will be deployed this summer. This was a very meaningful project for
all involved!
Over the past few months, the
Center has been teaching cooking and feeding more youth than ever before. More local families are finding it
difficult to provide nutritious dinners in the evening and so the Center has
filled that gap. Every afternoon
the smell of delicious food fills the Pemi Youth Center and youth participants
go home with full bellies.
The Pemi Youth Center and all its
activities and programs are funded through grants, fundraisers and
contributions. The Center is so
thankful for all the support received throughout the community! It is so important to offer all services
at no cost to youth and families, so that all youth regardless of their
families’ socioeconomic status can participate and feel a sense of
belonging. Simply put, the Pemi
Youth Center is a home away from home for so many young people in our community. It is where they go to find support,
smiles, friendship, laughter and fun.
Jessica Dutille
Affordable Housing in Plymouth: The Saga Continues
On February 2, the Plymouth Zoning
Board of Adjustment (ZBA) declined by a three to two vote, to approve the
proposed development of twenty-four units of affordable housing at the end of
Allen Road.
Plans are afoot to either
file for a rehearing or a new application with perhaps a different access point
to address some of the concerns of the residents of Allen Road.
Martha Copithorne
Exciting New Initiative Transition Towns
Both the Social Justice Potluck
prioritizing and an enthusiastic response to Sam Miller’s January 31
presentation on Transition Towns has spurred some follow up plans to help SKUUFers and other community members obtain a clearer view
on how religious groups and other community organizations and individuals might
best contribute to this Vision.
SKUUFers first step is to borrow the DVD
on Sam’s presentation from the SKUUF library if you were unable to attend so
you have a clearer understanding of why some SKUUFers believe this concept must be a part of SKUUF’s mission and goals.
Next step is to attend the
presentation at SKUUF on March 11, at 7:00 p.m. Bring friends from the Community and
solicit representatives of Community organizations to attend. Karen Ganey, currently
on the Steering Committee for Transition Town White River Junction,
and an active environmentalist and food activist for nearly ten years will
speak on what Vermont, and particularly White River Junction is doing regarding
Transition Towns. She believes the
Transition Movement provides a strong spiritual source of
empowerment and cultural transformation.
This should help us all be clearer
on how we as a religious community might use some of the movement’s goals to
further our mission and goal development. This is vital to help each of us clarify our thoughts prior to our March
21 Celebration where we will be noting our three wishes for SKUUF’s future.
Then on Earth Day, April 22,
from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m., SKUUF will again open its space to welcome the
community to hear a presentation by Steve Whitman, Planning Consultant and Permaculture activist. During the first hour Steve will cover general principles of Permaculture, where we build on the knowledge we gain
from Karen Ganey's talk about White River Junction
Transition Town, and the broad outlines of designing a transition
initiative. During the second hour Steve will lead a brainstorming
session, where we join other invited community organizations in
developing a list of the resources/talents/energy already on hand, place them
all in the context of a “big picture,” and figure out what’s “missing” from the
picture.
Betty Ann Trought
SKUUF Contribution to Haiti Earthquake Relief Fund
Members and friends of SKUUF
contributed a total of $1,642.52 to the UUSC/ UUA Haiti Earthquake Relief
Fund. The UUSC team is
currently in Haiti, meeting UUSC partners to develop a mid-and long-term
response to the devastation caused by the January 12 earthquake.
According to information posted by
UUSC on its website, their experiences in responding to crises has taught them
time and again that in every disaster, groups of people are at particular risk
of being overlooked or left behind in traditional aid programs. The UUSC has found that the best way of
identifying and reaching these groups is through partnering with grassroots
organizations working in the country itself. The UUSC works to support and strengthen these
local partners who will be there doing the work long after the international
relief agencies pack their bags.
The UUSC reports that it sends
$0.92 of every dollar donated to support relief and recovery efforts on the
ground. The remaining $.08 covers
essential administrative expenses such as wire transfer fees to send funds,
calls to partners on the ground, and temporary hires to support rapid response.
Nancy
Chaddock
Treasurer
Our
Favorite Books
(Here
are some of the books mentionedat our annual Book
Sharing service
held at the end of 2009)
She’s
Not There: a life in two genders by Jennifer Finney Boylan
People of the Book: a novel by Geraldine Brooks
Stewardship 2010-2011
The Stewardship Campaign at SKUUF
is actually the time of year when members and friends of our Fellowship reflect
upon their duty and honor in supporting the whole of our efforts as a
community. SKUUF means many
different things to our members and friends and we all view our ability, duty
and honor in support of our community in different ways.
This year we are incorporating a
review of SKUUF’s mission and goals in our annual Stewardship Campaign. We are asking members and friends to
reflect and share their views on “Where do we come from? and Where we are going?” We are also
asking you to reflect on what Stewardship means to you, not only in terms of
financial support but also in terms of personal volunteer time to our
community. We are asking that you
commit not only a specific financial contribution but also consider a volunteer
commitment for the upcoming year.
We believe that 2010-2011 will be
the first year we will have 100% financial commitment from our members. We hope to have 100% commitment from
our friends. We are interested in
this 100% financial commitment not only to assure meeting our 2010-2011 budget
commitments, but also to assure that all members feel equal in our faith based
on liberal democratic principles. We want all members to feel and be seen as equal partners in all our
Fellowship’s efforts. This desire
does not require reaching beyond our financial means but does mean specifying
what can reasonably be expected from our members during the year. Many of these amounts must
realistically be very modest while others will be generous beyond our
expectations. No amount is too
small or too great when one considers being a partner in this community.
Please review the Capital Campaign
brochure carefully and come prepared on March 21 to make both your financial
and volunteer commitment to our Fellowship. We anticipate meeting our pledge
goal of the
Stewardship campaign of $143,000 and rejuvenating our volunteer corps when we
all attend our May General Meeting.
Thank you in advance
for you generous support of our beloved Fellowship.
Andrea Sutherland
Betty Ann Trought
Worship and Music Committee
Each week at the Sunday service,
as I pick up the hymnal to sit down, I open it to see who donated it or to whom
it is dedicated. One hymnal I had recently, was donated by the Traunsteins,
Louise, Russell and Steven. Prompted by seeing their names, I enjoyed a few moments remembering them
and their various contributions to the Fellowship.
The Worship and Music Committee
has recently purchased several new hymnals. For the price of the hymnal, twenty-five dollars, you may
donate a hymnal in your own name, or the name of someone who is special to you,
or you may dedicate it in the memory of someone you have lost. Please speak with Sarah or any member
of the Worship and Music Committee for more information.
Committee members are: Mary Hazelton, Marcia VanderMast,
Paul Tierney, Eva Nagorka-Ellsworh, Leslie
Livingstone and Christie Faella.
Marcia VanderMast
Health
Hint
Tanning
beds are now classified by the International Agency for Research on Cancer as
“carcinogenic to humans.” This is as high a cancer risk as cigarettes.
Activities Committee
Open
Mike/Hymn Sing/Potluck (evolving concept)
February 27: Join Bev Walker for a fun,
beat-cabin-fever event featuring stand up comic “Mo” and his balloons. This is an opportunity for kids to have
some fun as well as adults, so come with your jokes, songs, stories and
music. Costumes optional but
welcome.
Snowshoe
Hike
March 14: Snowshoe (probably) Hike somewhere fun. Join Mitch and a
co-leader for a gentle winter meander about the countryside. Bring your family. We’ll leave SKUUF at
high noon. If you register with Mitch beforehand by e-mail, he’ll keep you
abreast of any changes due to weather or conditions.
Mother and Son at the Silver Center.
March 18: “This one-act play portrays the hilarious and poignant relationship between a
Jewish mother and her gay son. The play is based on the conversations
that writer/actor Jeffrey Solomon had with his mother and follows the woman’s
struggles to accept her son’s homosexuality and to come out to herself as the
mother of a gay man.” Join us for a Siam Smile dinner at 5:00 p.m. Contact
Phyllis or Mitch, if you want a place at the table.
Committee Meeting
The Actvities Committee will meet next on March 21, ten
minutes after our Special Celebration.
Phylis Rockwell and Mitch Manseau
Co-
Chairs
Universalist
Convocation 2010
May
14-16, 2010
First
Universalist Society of Rochester, NY
Keynote:
The Rev. Mark Morrison-Reed, “Dragged Kicking and Screaming to Heaven”
For
more information please go to nmuc.org/Convo
Fundraising Committee
Auction on Saturday March 20
Our SKUUF Auction is scheduled for
March 20. There are forms in the
foyer to use to identify your contribution, whether goods or services. Turn the forms in to the people listed on the form. For more information see Marcia VanderMast, Danni Simon, Bev Seavey or George Maloof.
We missed the yard sale last year so dig deep and bring in
a nice auction item. Avoid clothing unless it’s handmade and practically
new.
You can bring your items in early since we have lots of
space to store them before the auction. Goods may be deposited in the back room opposite the elevator
downstairs. Bring your items in during Regina’s office hours if possible, 9:00
a.m.-12:30 p.m. Monday through Friday.
We’ll need volunteers for desserts and coffee set up. Still need a few more people to donate
desserts. Sign up sheet for this is in the foyer.
Line Dancing
Friday, March 5, 6:00—7:30 p.m.
Sunday, March 28, 4:30—6:00 p.m.
Join
us for line dancing in the Fellowship Hall on the first Friday and the fourth Sunday
of each month. This is a
nice low key cardio exercise that almost anyone can do. This group is not restricted to Skuffers so if you know of others who might be interested
let them know about it as well.
For more information contact George Maloof .
George Maloof
Play
Bridge Thursday
Afternoons at SKUUF
If you are a bridge player
interested in the Thursday afternoon bridge
game at Starr King Fellowship,
please see Anna Wilken.
Crafters’ Emporium –
June 12, 10:00 a.m.-2 :00 p.m.
Fellowship Hall
Spring Cleaning?
Sweater you’ll never knit? Painting that takes too much energy?
Consider getting rid of all those craft projects that you KNOW you’ll
never do, and pass them on. Donations will help get us our kitchen a lot
sooner! At the same time you can pick up summer projects for yourself or
your kids. Tables will also be available for you to sell your craft supplies at $15
to $20 a space. Tell your friends – this is for the whole
community!
Can you help?! We will need help organizing and pricing items the
week before, and selling and cashiering that day. If you can assist,
please contact:
Mary
Tierney
George Maloof
Phyllis
Rockwell
Worship and Music
Sunday readers for March and April
are:
Paul Tierney—March 7
Gary Walker—March 14
Danni Simon—March 21
Gigi Estes—March 28
Betty Ann Trought—April 4
Bill Trought—April 11
Janet Doner—April
18
Marcia VanderMast—April
25
Admin
Ad-Libs
Thank you to all who offered their
condolences to me and my family during this difficult time. It is such a
comfort to know that you are in the thoughts/prayers of those around you.
Regina Knowlton
Office Assistant
Tips for Healthy Eating
· Choose lean meats and poultry.
Bake it, broil it, or grill it.
· In a restaurant, opt for steamed,
grilled, or broiled dishes instead of those that are fried or sautéed.
· Look for foods low in saturated
fats, trans fats, and cholesterol. Most of the fats you eat should come
from polyunsaturated and monounsaturated fats, such as those found in fish,
nuts, and vegetable oils.
· Look for foods high in potassium
(unless your health care professional has told you to restrict the amount of
potassium you eat). Potassium counteracts some of the effects of salt on blood
pressure.
· Choose foods and beverages low in
added sugars. Read the ingredient list to make sure that added sugars are not
one of the first few ingredients. (Ingredients are listed in descending order
of weight. Those in the largest amounts are listed first.) Some names for added
sugars include sucrose, glucose, high fructose corn syrup, corn syrup, maple
syrup, and fructose. Thus no sodas and only 1 cup of fruit juice a day.
Pick foods that provide dietary
fiber, like whole fruits, beans, vegetables, and
whole grains. The “juices” don’t substitute.
Betty Ann Trought with help from FDA’s Consumer Update
Circle Dinners
Sam and Virginia Miller are
offering their home for a Circle Dinner on March 13. A sign up sheet is in the foyer.
We are still looking for hosts for
April. If interested, Please
contact Sue Appleton to get details of what is involved and to book a date .
Suzanne Appleton
Membership Committee
Dinner and a Movie
The third in our series of Dinner
and a Movie with Potluck will be on Thursday, March 18 at 5:30 p.m. These movies focus on sexuality
and gender, with our minister, Sarah Stewart, facilitating discussions.
On
Thursday March 18, join Rev. Sarah for the movie TransAmerica.
In this independent film, a pre-operative male-to-female
transsexual takes an unexpected journey when she learns that she fathered a
son, now a teenage runaway hustling on the streets of New York. Directed
by Duncan Tucker and starring Felicity Huffman and Kevin Zegers.
Huffman was nominated for an Oscar for her portrayal of Bree. Rated R; 103 minutes. Bring a dish to share at a potluck. We’ll eat while we watch the
movie and then discuss. See Rev. Sarah with questions.
Remember
to wear your Nametag.
It
helps Everyone.
Newsletter Deadline
The
deadline for the April Newsletter is Sunday, March 14.
Please
send all items, committee reports, notice of events and activities to Barbara
Avery.
Remember to Recycle Cans
Remember
to bring your aluminum cans to SKUUF. Let us continue to recycle for the good of SKUUF and the planet. Those cans SKUUF collects and recycles
help the work of our Fellowship.
Starr King View
Minister: Rev. Sarah Stewart - sstewart@starrkingfellowship.org
Office Administrator: Regina Knowlton - admin@starrkingfellowship.org
Office: (603) 536-8908
Website—www.starrkingfellowship.org
Pres.: Eric
Hoffman
Vice Pres.: Paul Tierney
Treasurer: Nancy Chaddock
Secretary: Amy MacDonald
Trustees:
Marcia VanderMast
Gail
Smith
Don
Crowell




